Teens need answers About SEX.
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Teens need answers About SEX.
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I must admit that in this area, most of our parents has actually failed greatly.
Fear of the unknown has led some of the parents to build a lie into the lives of their children and teenagers about the subject matter SEX.
In the minds of these parents, they feel they are protecting their teenagers from harm of premarital SEX but the reverse becomes the case.
Over the years I have learnt by observations that what you don't know is greater than you and will do you more harms.
I have also learnt by observations that teenagers are inquisitive and experimental in nature.
Most parents are not aware of this two facts mentioned above and as such they hide the truth and lie about the topic SEX.
Knowledge is power and it is easily accessed by anyone from anywhere. If parents should know this truth, they will open up to their teenagers about SEX.
Like I said in my last post on Teens Discourse that whatever truth you fail to teach or show your teenager, they will learn out there the wrong way from the society.
If they learn it outside you, these challenges will crawl in gradually;
👉 The respect and cordial relationship with your teenagers will be lost.
👉 They will confide more in the society/technology than you, their parents
👉 They will keep more secrets; this is just to make sure that the truth you fail to show them which they have learnt and are using it, you don't know about it.
👉 They would start distancing you.
👉 Their social media becomes their parents and their friends becomes their guardians.
WHAT DO YOU DO NOW?
• Start on time to reveal the truth about sex to your children.
• Define SEX to them focusing your definition on the following;
....The time sex is needed
.... Who should engage in it.
.... Where it should be blessed
.... God's view about it.
.... Benefits of SEX
.... Dangers of premarital SEX
• Make sure you tell them the importance of keeping their virginity and how proud you would be if they do.
• Explain to them every sexual urges or feelings and how they can handle it. Make sure you let them know that these feelings are not sin but natural and SHOULD be CONTROLLED.
• Take time to know their boyfriends or girlfriends if possible.
• Make out time to discuss about SEX more often with them
• Then finally on your own always PRAY for them.
You see the world we find ourselves is so compromising and our teenagers find it difficult too just like you find it difficult.
Our teenagers are humans too and we should pray for them even as we do the little mentioned above.
We can still have God fearing teenagers who abstains from sex if we can have parents who can teach or show them the truth.
I am Joshua Ikegwuonu and I help parents redefine the dreams and minds of their teenagers.
#Redefinition #teensaffair #teens #teensbusiness #teenslove
Teens need answers About SEX.
***********************************
I must admit that in this area, most of our parents has actually failed greatly.
Fear of the unknown has led some of the parents to build a lie into the lives of their children and teenagers about the subject matter SEX.
In the minds of these parents, they feel they are protecting their teenagers from harm of premarital SEX but the reverse becomes the case.
Over the years I have learnt by observations that what you don't know is greater than you and will do you more harms.
I have also learnt by observations that teenagers are inquisitive and experimental in nature.
Most parents are not aware of this two facts mentioned above and as such they hide the truth and lie about the topic SEX.
Knowledge is power and it is easily accessed by anyone from anywhere. If parents should know this truth, they will open up to their teenagers about SEX.
Like I said in my last post on Teens Discourse that whatever truth you fail to teach or show your teenager, they will learn out there the wrong way from the society.
If they learn it outside you, these challenges will crawl in gradually;
👉 The respect and cordial relationship with your teenagers will be lost.
👉 They will confide more in the society/technology than you, their parents
👉 They will keep more secrets; this is just to make sure that the truth you fail to show them which they have learnt and are using it, you don't know about it.
👉 They would start distancing you.
👉 Their social media becomes their parents and their friends becomes their guardians.
WHAT DO YOU DO NOW?
• Start on time to reveal the truth about sex to your children.
• Define SEX to them focusing your definition on the following;
....The time sex is needed
.... Who should engage in it.
.... Where it should be blessed
.... God's view about it.
.... Benefits of SEX
.... Dangers of premarital SEX
• Make sure you tell them the importance of keeping their virginity and how proud you would be if they do.
• Explain to them every sexual urges or feelings and how they can handle it. Make sure you let them know that these feelings are not sin but natural and SHOULD be CONTROLLED.
• Take time to know their boyfriends or girlfriends if possible.
• Make out time to discuss about SEX more often with them
• Then finally on your own always PRAY for them.
You see the world we find ourselves is so compromising and our teenagers find it difficult too just like you find it difficult.
Our teenagers are humans too and we should pray for them even as we do the little mentioned above.
We can still have God fearing teenagers who abstains from sex if we can have parents who can teach or show them the truth.
I am Joshua Ikegwuonu and I help parents redefine the dreams and minds of their teenagers.
#Redefinition #teensaffair #teens #teensbusiness #teenslove
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