Redefinition

Over the past 28 years of my life, I have been fighting real big. I have over time been fighting my confusions, my conscience and My past. These have decided to keep a fight on me and I said NO to falling even when my strength is disappointing me. I kept fighting I kept pushing And I kept Praying. Everything in life is fighting you and their main aim is to bring you down to NOTHING. But you have just two options; To accept defeat             Or To keep Fighting In my fight to be GREAT and SUCCESSFUL, I have found out that there are two things I continue to fight and I am still fighting hard to win and those things are; My LAST SUCCESS and ME. They are actually the main fight you should win and I bet you, once you win these two guys. Nothing, I mean NOTHING can stand your way. Fight to win YOURSELF and your last SUCCESS. Every other thing fighting you bows on the discovery that you have won YOURSELF and your LAST SUCCESS. When you w...

We are all called and born to lead but very few end up LEADING. The reason being that very few are ready to pay the PRICE for Leadership. LEADERSHIP is all about SACRIFICE in the place of SERVICE and very few are ready to pay that PRICE. You can't serve the whole world at a time but you can start to serve that your neighbor, community and town without requesting anything from them. It's hard but it's worth it. It was hard for Jesus Christ It was hard for Nelson Mandela It was hard for Martin Luther King Jr It has been hard and will always be but it takes the real LEADERS to pay the PRICE in SERVICE for their LEADERSHIP. Have a great week and a wonderful month ahead becoming the Leader you were meant to be in services to humanity. #Redefinition

There is a saying that if you haven’t visit another man’s farm you will think your father’s farm is the biggest. The world is fast growing everything is now relative to the stand point of globality. We are now in the information age and the world is now a global village. So, thinking global may seems a bit odd but the reality of your environment have nothing to do with what is happening on the global Stage. The survival of the 21st century however is no longer measured how well you do in your locality but how well you scale up in the global standard. The world is innovating and accelerating. Being born in Nigeria naturally cut off the reality of being able to catch up with global pace by 50 years. So, if all you do is to measure your success based on your locality, My brother, you are simply playing in the game of being the best in an economy that is 50years away from the reality of global pace. Why thinking Globally? The next generation of Global leader will not be deter...

Dear Parents, I have come to realize that we loss our teenagers because we force them to do what is right. If what you want them to do is right, then show them how to do it. There is nothing wrong in SHOWING. In fact it is invariably the best method to coach or teach your teens. Show them how things are been done and involve them as you do them. I learnt this principle from my father. He will always say, "stop shouting on them but go show them". It helped my teaching career and Mentoring sessions with teenagers. Sincerely, teenagers sometimes could be annoying but when you come down to their level and show them things, you will find out that they are the best people to be with. To test the intelligence of your teenagers, show them how things are being done. They will do that thing just exactly the same way they saw you do them and add some smartness to it too. Show them how to pray and they will move mountains praying. Show them how to read and they would ...

Growing up, I found it difficult to say NO to things I don't like or want in my life. I always don't want to hurt people's feeling yet they hurt mine with no sympathy or regrets. I kept wondering why I am treated so. Lots of people have walked through mind with their dirty foots leaving lots of dirt in my mind. I am still fighting with all the blood in my vein to clean up my mind from the mess they left. One day I woke listening Dr. Myles Munroe's message. Just that moment I realized that I am the master of my Gates and my life. I realized that I have the keys to the gates and it is only those I give the permission can come in. On this awareness, I took charge of my mind and what or who I allow to speak to it. It is not wrong to say NO! It is not wrong to say "YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED" Hey!! It is not wrong to say "I AM NOT INTERESTED" You owe nobody apologies for not welcoming them into your life to mess it up. After all, everyone is n...

Teens Affair Discourse Teens need answers About SEX. *********************************** I must admit that in this area, most of our parents has actually failed greatly. Fear of the unknown has led some of the parents to build a lie into the lives of their children and teenagers about the subject matter SEX. In the minds of these parents, they feel they are protecting their teenagers from harm of premarital SEX but the reverse becomes the case. Over the years I have learnt by observations that what you don't know is greater than you and will do you more harms. I have also learnt by observations that teenagers are inquisitive and experimental in nature. Most parents are not aware of this two facts mentioned above and as such they hide the truth and lie about the topic SEX. Knowledge is power and it is easily accessed by anyone from anywhere. If parents should know this truth, they will open up to their teenagers about SEX. Like I said in my last post on Teens Disc...