Redefinition

There is a saying that if you haven’t visit another man’s farm you will think your father’s farm is the biggest. The world is fast growing everything is now relative to the stand point of globality. We are now in the information age and the world is now a global village. So, thinking global may seems a bit odd but the reality of your environment have nothing to do with what is happening on the global Stage. The survival of the 21st century however is no longer measured how well you do in your locality but how well you scale up in the global standard. The world is innovating and accelerating. Being born in Nigeria naturally cut off the reality of being able to catch up with global pace by 50 years. So, if all you do is to measure your success based on your locality, My brother, you are simply playing in the game of being the best in an economy that is 50years away from the reality of global pace. Why thinking Globally? The next generation of Global leader will not be deter...

Dear Parents, I have come to realize that we loss our teenagers because we force them to do what is right. If what you want them to do is right, then show them how to do it. There is nothing wrong in SHOWING. In fact it is invariably the best method to coach or teach your teens. Show them how things are been done and involve them as you do them. I learnt this principle from my father. He will always say, "stop shouting on them but go show them". It helped my teaching career and Mentoring sessions with teenagers. Sincerely, teenagers sometimes could be annoying but when you come down to their level and show them things, you will find out that they are the best people to be with. To test the intelligence of your teenagers, show them how things are being done. They will do that thing just exactly the same way they saw you do them and add some smartness to it too. Show them how to pray and they will move mountains praying. Show them how to read and they would ...

Growing up, I found it difficult to say NO to things I don't like or want in my life. I always don't want to hurt people's feeling yet they hurt mine with no sympathy or regrets. I kept wondering why I am treated so. Lots of people have walked through mind with their dirty foots leaving lots of dirt in my mind. I am still fighting with all the blood in my vein to clean up my mind from the mess they left. One day I woke listening Dr. Myles Munroe's message. Just that moment I realized that I am the master of my Gates and my life. I realized that I have the keys to the gates and it is only those I give the permission can come in. On this awareness, I took charge of my mind and what or who I allow to speak to it. It is not wrong to say NO! It is not wrong to say "YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED" Hey!! It is not wrong to say "I AM NOT INTERESTED" You owe nobody apologies for not welcoming them into your life to mess it up. After all, everyone is n...

Teens Affair Discourse Teens need answers About SEX. *********************************** I must admit that in this area, most of our parents has actually failed greatly. Fear of the unknown has led some of the parents to build a lie into the lives of their children and teenagers about the subject matter SEX. In the minds of these parents, they feel they are protecting their teenagers from harm of premarital SEX but the reverse becomes the case. Over the years I have learnt by observations that what you don't know is greater than you and will do you more harms. I have also learnt by observations that teenagers are inquisitive and experimental in nature. Most parents are not aware of this two facts mentioned above and as such they hide the truth and lie about the topic SEX. Knowledge is power and it is easily accessed by anyone from anywhere. If parents should know this truth, they will open up to their teenagers about SEX. Like I said in my last post on Teens Disc...

There are principles and approaches to everything. To be seen is good but to be known is more valuable. Being seen is the ability to showcase both valuable and nuisance value. To be seen you just need to pour out there content consistently. Being known comes with a purpose in mind. The intentionality of being conscious about what people see. It's an art of deliberately putting a consciousness of you in the mind of people seeing you. Every little things you want to post in the name of I want to be seen. The aim isn't to be seen. The aim is to be known. Each time you put out content, you are either just seen for the nuisance value you constitute or the content value you can be remembered for. To be known starts with being seen. It doesn't end there, you must be seen with a core message. A message that leaves people thinking about you. In year 2006, I made a decision to have as personal value ability to always dazzle people. It's the message that affected my phil...

........ "I have been trying to tell them that this is how to do this but they wouldn't listen. What kind of generation is this that doesn't listen to instructions? What kind of generation is this that care less of what their pastor teaches in the church? He answered and said to me... "Why not stop telling them and start showing them? Showing them?🙄  I asked He said YES! Show them that which you have been telling them about, it makes the difference. He added "how do you feel at the bus park when a bad dressed looking man comes to you at the bus to preach to you that God is good or sell a book THINK AND GROW RICH? I replied.... I don't even give  attention to whatever they have to say because I believe he needs the book first before referring me to it, I need to see the goodness of God in his life before believing him in this 21st century. What's the point here?  TELLING and SHOWING Showing all workings in mathematics back in secondary schoo...

The truth is you're broke! Deep down in you, you know you are in a deep shit of money problem. You have been in the same job for 10years, salary hasn't change meanwhile your rent has been increased 3 times in 10years. You have been in the same house for 12years. The truth is you are so screwed. When you got the job, you were alone but now with a wife and kids. Yet your salary have low self esteem. Nothing is working. Nothing is moving. To make it worse you are a book worm and there is no result to show for it. Your life is a big disappointment. This is 2019, and your life isn't not even close to meeting up with your year 2016 goals. You are completely screwed. Well, this is the simple unapologetic truth. This may not sound well but this is your life. You are growing old and demn it, all effort is futile. This year you need to be mad. Let people call you mad. Fine. But your life is your right. It's your duty. Success is your role. Success is your d...

This is often the kind of questions we get asked by people occasionally. As trivia as it sounds whenever someone ask you this question they either use your answer to place you for opportunities or place you as someone who doesn't know what he or she is doing. What can you do defines what opportunities you can harness. When you meet rich people who are in a position to help you, you will hear them say "what can you do?" THIS IS WHERE THE BULLSHIT BEGINS WITH SOME PEOPLE People answer like I can sing, I do this and that, I can withstand pressure, I can deliver any task given to me... Bla bla bla ... Bullshit! Let's come to those who are doing business online. You check their profile, you see things like am a loving, caring, hardworking person, I love God, and all kind of stuffs. Here is the matter... People are first interested in what you can do for them whenever they meet you. When you hear questions like that, the person is simply saying ...

......Forward ever, backwards never....... The truth still remains that you can't make any move or better moves looking backwards as you walk forward Do you want to have a better life, become a person of influence in any area of your life. You need to be consistent weather in moving forward or in going backwards. Anything you want to do make sure you are consistent in it. It is either you are  hot or a cold person, you can't be both. It is either you are white or black, you can't have the two colours the same time. It is either you are tall or short, you can't be tallshort or shorttall. The point is that you have to decide to let go one thing and focus on the other. If you want to make any progress in any of your endeavours you have to learn the required lessons from the past and don't let it control your present and future. When the lessons are learnt then let go of your pass and move on. Our spiritual life is affected with the attitudes of walki...

I have been so amazed recently at how the internet is sporadically making people a celebrity over the night. The most alarming part is, most of the recent ones are people in the comedy space. Where someone decided to talk rubbish and suddenly have 700k followers. While this encourages participation and inclusion in the social media SPACE, it is however bothering that we are building an economy based on the community where we divulge huge contents that are of no sense and economic value or in anyway impact intellectual prowess that can be useful to building a strong economy that alliviate poverty  and take us to global competitiveness. Everyone is going comic. The most painful part is 8 out of 10 youths are facinated by this comedies. WhatsApp status is now the hub to share skits, comedy and funny content. Then I ask, will America be what it is today if Mark Zuckerberg was a Comedian? How about Steve Jobs, being a comedian instead of innovating? Larry Ellison could hav...

Teens Affair Discourse Teens need answers to so many questions in their mind. ********************************* Teenagers are the most inquisitive set of Humans. They do whatever it takes to get answers to the questions that dance all the time in their minds. Sometimes it is difficult for parents to understand this aspect of the lives of their teenagers. These teenagers sometimes assume some false things in their minds because of their environment, only to fall in to depression on their discovery that their assumptions were lies. At this particular stage of our children's lives, we tend to loss them to the society because we have little or no answers to these questions that these teenagers brings to the table. The truth every parent should embrace is that, your teens really want to learn from you. But in the situation where parents can't provide the right and needed answers to these questions, parents loss their teenagers to anything or persons that gives them...